I have been wondering about why people are so intent on having everyone they know paired?
Everytime a new actor rises, they want to know who she or he is dating. Everyone is so interested about the personal love life of the actor, no one cares if the actor is actually good in their trade.
Seriously, does dating someone automatically make someone whole? I have always felt okay alone. I accomplished many of my goals, by myself with only emotional support from family and friends. I dreamed about my goals alone and for the most part took the steps to make these dreams come true alone.
So there is that word…alone. And within that word, we can create lonely and loneliness. It has been tough, but I have survived it. If circumstances arose that would cause me to be alone again, I would survive it. I don’t want it, but I would survive it.
Since being in a relationship for the past few months, I have discovered that sometimes two heads are better than one. I have also discovered that there are days when I just want to be left alone. There are also days when I need to hear his voice and those little texts I get throughout the day gives me that certain push to go on. So I can certainly say that everyone should be in love. But if someone tells me that they are currently single, I don’t pursue the matter. Everyone has their own reasons for not being in one. It’s a personal choice.
So my answer is that on an emotional level, a relationship can complete a person. And right now, my emotions are complete.